Psychology today adventures in dating
Feminine women rely on communication to experience certainty.It might seem like a small difference but a difference in the basic and most fundamental way you engage life has significant ramifications for the rest of your life.They were characteristics of related to different pathways to certainty more than the mechanisms for certainty.I’ve left them out because they’re not relevant to this discussion but if you want to understand them more, you can learn about the different pathways to certainty in Endgame.Could it be possible that this problem you have with understanding women could have a core issue as well? They seem to approach this idea of ‘attraction’ like it’s a logical decision; like a woman wakes up one day and thinks ‘You know what, every time I see a guy who has a large bank balance, I’m going to get wet.’ It doesn’t work like that. The key to finding the core is understanding that it’s about the feeling, not the object. “I’ll tell you what; let me make it easier for you. She’d feel looked after, and safe.” “What about these mythical ‘Alpha Males’ that the PUA’s seem to be so caught up on? It’s excitement and surprise at what could be around the corner. We all start out in the world as a little girl and it’s not till eight weeks that things start to change.So how do you think these things, this power, money, or fame, make women feel? How do you think a woman feels when she’s around a guy with power? She’d feel looked after–safe and secure.” “Good, now how about a guy with money? The hormone that drives a baby’s development in the womb up to the week eight mark is estrogen.I much prefer for guys to work things out for themselves so I let him stew for a minute. After a baby is born, a whole raft of external factors come into play and shape how a person’s brain is structured and where they get their sense of certainty from, so we’re going to have to narrow this down.
The reason I’m telling you all this is that this brain stuff, these inherent biological differences between males and females mean the dominant way that a female and male person develop their perception of certainty is different.” His mind was working overtime.Feminine women operate from a fundamentally different place than Masculine men.Masculine men rely on their ability to take action and make things happen to experience certainty.I’m also in no way claiming this is true because it’s something that lies beyond the scope of scientific ‘truth’. Obviously, all three of these quotes are taken out of context and are missing large sections of supporting information. It’s not to say that she couldn’t take control if she wanted to, it’s just that she doesn’t have to. Happiness can get really boring if it’s just the same thing over and over again. For some guys, they struggle because they don’t have basic hygiene standards, for others, their sense of style just puts them too far behind the 8-ball, but for most guys, it’s simply because they don’t make sense. You just have to be able to see what’s going on behind the surface. So, to give you that knowledge to make understanding women simple and straight forward, I’m going to break it all down for you today.
“Okay, sure, this is all really cool information but how does it help me give her the certainty she’s looking for so I can be that guy?